FAQ

Yes. Intimacy is a normal part of life and most people with an ICD can resume sexual activity when they feel physically and emotionally ready. There is no standard waiting period, though your cardiologist or cardiac nurse may give you specific guidance based on your individual situation.

If you have concerns about intimacy, the risk of a shock during sex, or the impact on your relationship, these are legitimate topics to raise with your clinical team. Many people find them difficult to bring up, but your cardiac nurse or cardiologist will have had these conversations before. You can also find peer support through SCA UK.

Using a vibrator poses no risks. Just make sure the vibrator is in good working condition and has no electrical problems.

The ship’s radar is normally located far enough from any public areas that it won’t affect your ICD.

Yes. Taking a cruise is safe with an ICD. The ship’s radar equipment is located well away from passenger areas and is very unlikely to interfere with your device.

Before travelling, make sure you carry your device ID card at all times, as it contains important information about your device and may be needed at port security. It is also worth contacting your travel insurer to confirm your cover — see our FAQ on travel insurance for more information. Let your device clinic know you are travelling so they can advise on remote monitoring arrangements if needed.

Skiing will not interfere with your ICD. Whether you are able to ski depends on your overall medical condition and your cardiologist’s guidance, not the device itself.

Most people return to skiing and other physical activities after a full recovery from ICD implantation. Discuss any concerns with your cardiologist before you travel, particularly if you have an exercise-triggered condition, or if high altitude is relevant to your heart condition.

Yes. Sexual activity is a normal and important part of life, and having an ICD shouldn’t stop you.

From a physical standpoint, sex is roughly equivalent in exertion to climbing two flights of stairs, moderate activity that most people with ICDs can manage comfortably once they’ve recovered from their procedure. Your cardiologist will advise when it’s safe to resume, typically once you’re comfortable with light to moderate physical activity.

A common worry is whether a shock during sex could harm a partner. The honest answer: it’s extremely unlikely to cause any harm. If your ICD were to deliver a shock, a partner in physical contact might feel a mild tingle, but not a painful or dangerous shock. This is a widely asked question and one worth discussing openly with your care team if it’s causing anxiety.

Many people find that worry about the ICD itself affects confidence more than any physical limitation, and that is completely normal. SCA UK’s peer support community includes people who’ve navigated exactly these concerns. You’re not alone in having them.

Full guidance on intimacy and ICDs, including information for partners, is on our Sex and Intimacy After Cardiac Arrest page.

If you have specific concerns about your situation, speak to your cardiologist or specialist nurse.