I don’t feel I can answer this! It must be very different for everyone depending on cause, down time, the hospital they are in and the circumstances they return to (e.g. As a single parent, you have to get on as normal as much as you can). Clare, 31, Almost 5 months.
Focus on what you have rather than what you haven’t and be patient and positive, it gets better! Michelle, 42, 4 years